Rituparno Insults Mir In His Talk Show

by Nipon Haque on December 8, 2008 · 16 comments

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A nasty display of self conceit and vanity by the celebrated filmmaker Rituparno Ghosh has left viewers shocked and angry. As you might have already heard, Rituparno recently invited Mir to his new talk show Ghosh & Co. on Star Jalsa and gave him a thorough tongue-lashing. Although I didn’t watch the episode myself, I came to learn from my friends that it was disgusting to watch and how Rituparno proved himself to be haughty and proud in a show which is supposed to be intellectually stimulating. Such was his arrogance, that everyone is furious. The way he utilized the platform to settle his personal scores in public made himself look cheap and a self-centered antel.

Rituparno invited Mir to his talk show only to insult him

Rituparno invited Mir to his talk show only to insult him

Throughout the show, the only talking point Rituparno adhered to was the single theme – as to why Mir copies his effeminate ways and caricature? He went over and over on the mimicry issue, insulting Mir all the time. Desperate to belittle his guest, he said with contempt that Mir makes his living by mimicking others and went on saying that mimicry, which according to him is the mainstay of Mir’s career, is an inferior form of art – it is hardly any art.

The haughty Rituparno was crafty enough to add that his stature and position allows him to be least perturbed with an insignificant Mir mocking him but what bothers him is the hurt feelings of the ‘sexual minority’. No doubt, that was a lame excuse. Rituparno with his inability to take humour in good spirit had a grudge on Mir since long and chose to don a masquerade of fellow-feeling for the sexual minority with the only motive of insulting Mir in public!

Rituparno even alleged that Mir never uses his surname to conceal his religion! How ingenious of Rituparno! Everybody knows Mir is a Muslim. Not that matters anyway though. In the entertainment world, this is far too common. Rock artist Rupam, who is justifiably an icon of the present Bengali youth, is better known by his first name only. Similarly, it never occurs to us that pop singer Jojo can have a full name simply because we never bother about that. We are content with whatever names they are known to us.

While bashing Mir, Rituparno ended up saying – even photography is no art as is not mimicry, both lacking in originality. If photography is no art then neither is cinematography, I dare say! When Mir said he mimics others because he can do it the haughty director told bluntly – there are a few people in Bengal who can equal Rituparno Ghosh!

While Rituparno went all out in insulting Mir, Mir however kept his cool. Even after so much vitriol flowed from Ritu, Mir was polite all through. He was calm and composed proving himself a true gentleman. Rituparno, on the other hand, was filled with spite and revenge.

If Rituparno can’t stand Mir mocking him, he could have conveyed his feelings to Mir in a decent & polite manner. But decency seems to be last word that can be said of Rituparno Ghosh. Everyone who watched the episode has spoken at length what a terrible sight it was – to see the acclaimed director stoop to such levels in his desperate attempt to demean Mir. It looked ridiculous and disgusting to say the least.

Rituparno’s battle against Mir is however not something new. As I have written on this not so long ago – read the post Rituparno Beats Mir.

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anjan

This is just typical of Bengali Intellectuals. They are slowly receding to the backwaters , but insist that they are in some way greater than evrybody else. To prove their so called intellectual pretensions they have no problem is parading isms which have long lost their relevance.
Ignore such asses.Yhay will give them their comeuppance.

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Shubhankar

Mir has justifiably taking revenge of his insults by Rituparno ‘Hijra’ Ghosh. In the programme ‘Enjoy Guru’ now and then Mir is very rightly making mokery of this Hijra from Tollywood.

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Shubhankar

not

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Shubhankar

Mir is justifiably taking revenge of his insults by Rituparno ‘Hijra’ Ghosh. In the programme ‘Enjoy Guru’ now and then Mir is very rightly making mokery of this Hijra from Tollywood.Although he is a famous director yet a stigma on our Indian society. Jio Mir! you are doing the right thing. Keep it up.
….New Delhi

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Sujoy

The strangest thing is when Rituporno says that Mir cannot mimmic him(her whatever). Ritupirno should realise that Mir is far more talented than him. Rituporno is a ‘Hijra’ as rightly said by Mir. Mir should insult this jerk everytime he goes on stage. MIR WE ARE WITH YOU!!

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bazlur rahman

I have watched on youtube the entire Ghosh and Meer encounter as well as Meer’s reply to it in his own show.

60% of the Ghosh show was quite normal, and Rituporno was quite respectable, even affectionate, toward Meer, asking him about his early life, radio shows and transition to TV. Meer spoke with great relish about himself, often ignoring Rituporno’s attempts to chaনge the topic, which Rituporno patiently allowed him.

In the last 40% of the show Rituporno asked Meer to justify mimicing people’s abnormalities, and Meer was unable to do so. Rituporno got understaনdably annoyed at Meer’s insistence that it was all good fun, and without malice, but Rituporno reminded him that not all such people would take such mimicing with good grace, and a man of talent such as Meer need not stoop so low as to try to earn his living by hurting other people whose only crime was that they belong to a minority. He also mentioned that Meer Afsar Ali himself was probably trying to hide his minority image by shortening his name to Meer, because it is seldom an advantage to be known to belong to a minority group;.

Meer’s Guru skit, mimicing Rituporno again, was obscene, and his rolling and roaring with laughter, showing his great pleasure at the insults thrown on Rituporno showed nothing but meanness. I will never again watch a program with Meer in it.

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Karuna

I’ve also seen the entire talkshow. Initially it was going ok but in the last 40% of the show, Rituporno simply failed to handle the matter in best assertive or best controlled manner. He simply expressed his ego or super inferiority complex, nothing else. Although Rituporno tried to give good logic like ”not all such people would take such mimicking with good grace, and a man of talent such as Meer need not stop so low as to try to earn his living by hurting other people whose only crime was that they belong to a minority.” — although Rituporno gave such a good logic against Mir’s mockery towards him but the result of that talkshow went against Rituporno simply because of Rituporno couldn’t keep control upon his temper. He simply became furious upon Mir and also kept saying that mimicry is not art as it has no originality in it, it’s just a photography or like copying others. He also tried to say Mir as nothing towards him. Rituporno was just expressing his super inferiority complex. Nothing else! For such behavior, Rituporno simply lost the track from what he wanted to say actually against mimicing towards him. Rituporno simply couldn’t handle the matter well! Moreover he called Mir as a guest at his place and he insulted the guest!

MORAL: if anybody does kidding with you and you feel insulted over, still you need to handle it in best assertive, calm, controlled manner rather than throwing a brick towards the person. Else the matter will go more against you because of your failure in not being able to handle the matter in best positive manner. What you exactly wanted to say will be hidden but people will notice your angry expression only. So they will keep laughing over you more if you can’t handle other’s kidding towards you in best positive manner. It’s the fact.

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Jerremee

Everyone is free to do whatever he or she chooses in life. The way Mr. Rituporno Ghosh conducted the show and demeaned what Mir does just shows his intolerance levels and that he does not respect another person’s profession. From a person, the stature of Mr. Ghosh, I would have expected much more sane attitude and even if he had to question Mir’s competency, he could have formed properly crafted questions. What he did instead was just settle scores. Mr. Ghosh could actually have asked Mir to come to the boxing ring and sort it out than calling him to a talk show and run his own propaganda. As someone on this forum said, I agree that some Bengali intellectuals of the genre of Mr. Ghosh think that they are much bigger than the others. Shame on their thought processes.

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prakashacharya

I watched Rituparno Ghosh interviewing Mir and frankly speaking it left a bitter taste in the mouth. Mr.Ghosh was way out of line. perhaps he doesnt know that only celebrities are mimicked and in a way Mir is actually paying him a compliment by mimicking him. Obviously Mr Ghosh doesnt have a sense of humour.

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suven

… Amar moto katha ei banglay beshi keo balteparbena,Mir tui to ekebarei noy….
”..Tale amar etogulo chhabi keu dekhte asto na….
… Tui ei kore rojgar karis….
… tui muslman…

…. Mir ke apoman karte giye Uporokto Bakyaguli praman kare Rituporno tumi koto chhhoto..
.. Tomar uchit chhilo tomar programm e Mir ke tomar nakalkorar prasango ta sampurna baad deoa, ignore kara.
–Eta sabai janlo, anyer jonyo mathabatha noy , tomar raag Mir er upar personal…
Ebang setai pramantio holo ” Anurag Basur Show te…on 24 July 2010

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bivash

bengali comedianer modhye mir is the best…………..i love mir da…………

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benoy

mir has the talent but he should try to be little civilized dealing with people’s sensitiveness, especially to sexual minorities. kechcha is not a art!
What if someone tries a muslim joke on him? would he like it?

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bivash

rituporno chele na meye setay akhono projonto jante parlam na…………..ritupornor take chool ney r mir da insult korbe………..aage bhalo kore take chool gojiye aso tarpor mir da insult korbe…………..

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banibrata

Cheleo noi meye o noi.. o hochche “MEYLE”. Bloody TRANSSEXUAL

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banibrata

Ritu “PORNO” should be immdly kicked out of bengal.. Rather India too.

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